Kids Who Can

Thursday, March 16, 2006

teleseminar

Hi Parents and Everyone Who Does Anything With Children,
It is that time of the month again for Ali's teleseminar. This month she continues to address mistakes from her ebook, Parents, Are You Making These 17 Mistakes With Your Child.

Register for the call at http://doiop.com/teleseminar

Ask Ali your most burning question at http://doiop.com/kidswhocan

And be sure to enter this month's Recipes for Living Contest by submitting your Recipe For Instant Fun for those unexpected delays where you find yourself needing to occupy your kids and keep everyone happy. You may win a copy of her 17 Mistakes book by sharing your fun idea at http://doiop.com/liferecipes

You may have noticed that my company name is now Kids Who Can. If you see that addressknow theemail is coming from me.

Meet you on the call Wednesday night!

Enjoy your weekend!

Being In Service,
Ali Bierman

Kids Who Can!
Empowering Parents | Empowering Kids

856-656-0529
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Friday, March 03, 2006

Your Child's Best Teacher...Is You

Parenting Can Feel Scary

Your child looks to you to meet his or her every need? How do you know what to do?

Hey, you are the adult. Guess. Only act confident so you will at least convince yourself you know what you are doing. And guess what, when you act as if you know what you are doing you will gain confidence in how and what you are doing and everyone will be fine.

Will all be Donna Reed perfect? No. Was the Donna Reed show real? Do people live perfect lives? How boring would life be if everyone and everything went according to our wishes and dreams? Where would the challenge be? How about the surprises that make life interesting and even exciting?

The good news is you do not have to be perfect. Children are flexible and resilient. Yeah, they really are. They will survive no matter what you do or do not do in your parenting learning experience.

Just take responsibility for the choices you make.
Will you always make the right choices? In the big picture, yes, you will always make the right choices. At first some of your choices may appear to be far from optimal. Everything is always perfect in the Universe. You do not have to understand how or why things work. You CHOOSE to trust.

As a role model, realize the valuable lesson you teach your child when you make a choice, act on that choice and trust your choice to be the best in the situation. Congratulations on being bold! Feel the fear and take action anyway!

Now that's effective parenting!

Being In Service,
Ali Bierman

Revealing the secrets to raising "Kids Who Can"--can be, do and be anything they want to life in life.

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Your Child's Best Teacher...Is You!

Your Most Important Job

As parents you expend a lot of time and energy choosing the best school, safest bike, most valuable educational games, most qualified soccer coach and ballet teacher. The list goes on and on.

Yet the most important task of all--the one that determines your child's happiness and success in life--the task of creating your child's self-image--that job you do unconsciously.

Self image is created by how you treat your child during the early years--what you do and do not say, what you do and do not do. Every little interaction you have with your child, every reaction, every response--or the lack thereof--sends a message to your child telling him what you think of him and who s/he is for you.

Self image determines self esteem which affects the success your child will achieve in all areas of life throughout his or her life! You can choose to take that sacred task to heart and ensure that the self image you instill through your behaviors is a positive one resulting in "Kids Who Can."

How do you create your child's self image on a conscious level? Realize that the words you speak directly to your child AND the words your child hears spoken about him or her go directly into his or her subconscious mind creating programs that become his or her reality.

If you make a joke about your toddler's clumsy walk, your child's subconscious mind creates a program that says, "I am clumsy." That order will then be carried out across your child's life and s/he will be clumsy.

Your child has no way to screen out negative messages, looks, feelings etc. s/he picks up from you and others in his or her early environment. Simply be aware of what you say and do and even of how you look at and think about your child. You do not have to say a word for your kid to know what is going on inside you.

Live your life with that awareness. And most important of all, hug your kid at least four times every single day and say the words, "I love you." every single day--the more often the better.

Tell your child you love and treasure him or her simply because s/he exists and you are grateful to be his or her parent. Afterall, you really are, aren't you?

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